The most proactive thing you can do is to get out of debt as soon as possible. You should seek help from a financial advisor from your bank or seek help from a private advisor; they can help you make a better step in the direction of making payments and being able to enjoy your own interest free, hard earned money. This will also help you get back on a better and healthier track with your financial situation.

The cash advances are not to be blamed for your own human weakness. Money does that to even the best of us.